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During Christine Blasey Ford’s Testimony, Contempt for Women Was on Full Display →

September 27, 2018 by Abby Gardner in News + Politics

As Christine Blasey Ford took her seat at a table in front of the Senate Judiciary Committee today to answer questions regarding her allegations of sexual assault against Brett Kavanaugh, I was not working under any pretense that she would be treated fairly by the Republican senators, every one of them male and quite a few well past the age of 60. History (see: Hill, Anita) and the members' own reluctance to allow an FBI investigation into Blasey Ford's claims were evidence enough.

Before today's hearings even began, Blasey Ford had been referred to as "mixed up" by Sen. Orrin Hatch (R-Utah), and he bookended that dismissive comment by calling her "pleasing" and an "attractive witness" after her testimony today.

As today's proceedings went on, that low hum of condescension grew louder and louder.

To see how these Republican men conducted themselves in real-time blinded me with the kind of rage I haven't felt since Donald Trump loomed menacingly behind Hillary Clinton during that presidential debate back in 2016. The contempt for women was, to me, on full display and indicative of a type of behavior that we see from the right too often.

Read the full story on Glamour.com

September 27, 2018 /Abby Gardner
Glamour, Brett Kavanaugh, Christine Blasey Ford, Supreme Court
News + Politics
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Black Women Are Dying During Childbirth. Sen. Kamala Harris Is Working to Change That. →

August 23, 2018 by Abby Gardner

"For women of color, pregnancy and childbirth are often a matter of life and death. The risk of death from pregnancy-related causes for black women is three to four times higher than for women of other races. It's something California Senator Kamala Harris has been vocal about in the past. And she's pushing to make sure this maternal mortality crisis is being recognized and rectified through new legislation, as well..."

Read the full story on Glamour.com

August 23, 2018 /Abby Gardner
Glamour
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How Justice Anthony Kennedy's Retirement From the Supreme Court Could Erode Women's Rights →

June 28, 2018 by Abby Gardner in News + Politics

Presidents come and go, but Supreme Court justices last a lifetime—and their rulings can affect women for generations to come.

The privilege of nominating a high court judge now falls to President Donald Trump for the second time with the coming retirement of Justice Anthony Kennedy.

Trump has vowed to put conservative judges on the bench, and he kept that promise when he chose Neil Gorsuch to replace the late Antonin Scalia last year. In choosing Kennedy’s replacement, Trump could shift the court further to the right, changing the landscape on issues affecting American women—including abortion rights—and could fire up both sides of the aisle in an already tumultuous election year.

Read the full story on Glamour.com 

June 28, 2018 /Abby Gardner
Glamour, News + Culture, Supreme Court
News + Politics
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I Was One of Anne Hathaway's 'Hathahaters'—Until Now →

June 14, 2018 by Abby Gardner in Pop Culture

"Sometimes it's just easier to be snarky. It's certainly my default position more than I'd like to admit. Really, what's so wrong with being earnest or trying too hard? I remember once joking that Hathaway seemed like a not-so-great hang—but once I removed my snark-colored glasses, she was, dare I say, delightful."

Read the full story on Glamour.com 

June 14, 2018 /Abby Gardner
Glamour, Pop Culture, Anne Hathaway
Pop Culture
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My First Kate Spade: 12 Women on How the Designer Impacted Their Personal Style →

June 05, 2018 by Abby Gardner in Fashion

"To me, that bag was a sign that I'd made it. I was a young magazine assistant at Jane in late nineties, basking in the glow of New York City and being part of a world that I had grown up dreaming about from my bedroom in Indiana. I may have had the cool job, but that didn't mean I always felt cool. Oh, but that chic black nylon bag with the small—but instantly recognizable—black and white label made me feel like I belonged. I'm 42 now, and I can still vividly remember the feeling like it was yesterday."

Read the full story on Glamour.com

 

June 05, 2018 /Abby Gardner
Glamour, Fashion, Kate Spade
Fashion
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Yes, That Arrested Development Roundtable Was Shocking—but Not Unfamiliar to Many Women →

May 24, 2018 by Abby Gardner in Pop Culture

"This situation will feel all too familiar to many women. Who among us hasn't sat in a meeting and been talked over by a man with a terrible idea? It's some next-level mansplaining, what Bateman is doing here. Does he really think he needs to explain the dynamics of a set to a woman who's worked in the industry for 60 years? Apparently, yes. Then there's the fact that Walter seems to feel compelled to be the one to diffuse the situation and "let it go" when none of this was her doing in the first place. That rings so true to the female experience as well."

Read the full story on Glamour.com 

 

May 24, 2018 /Abby Gardner
Glamour, Arrested Development, Sexual Harassment
Pop Culture
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How One Article Changed My Perspective on Mother’s Day Without My Mom →

May 11, 2018 by Abby Gardner in Personal Essays

"If you watch television, go on the Internet, or are just engaged in the world, you know that it's Mother's Day season. It probably feels pretty innocuous to many of you, if not completely annoying. I know it did for me—until my mom died suddenly in January of 2014. Then Mother's Day changed forever.

The Mother's Day Industrial Complex is vast and all-consuming from April to early May each year. Every commercial. Every email from a brand. Every gift guide on your favorite website. Every special episode of TV. (Hell, even The Handmaid's Tale was maternally themed last week.) They all just become painful triggers after your mom dies, reminders of a relationship that you can no longer celebrate the way you'd like to. My first motherless Mother's Day came just a few short months after losing my mom, and I wasn't ready for it in any way. I was still wracked with a grief I wasn't sure would ever lessen and trying to figure out how to get through my day-to-day life. How was I going to cope on a day dedicated to moms?"

Read the full story on Glamour.com 

 

 

May 11, 2018 /Abby Gardner
Glamour, Mother's Day
Personal Essays
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The 'Scandal' Finale Gave Olivia Pope the Ending She Was Always Destined For →

April 20, 2018 by Abby Gardner in Pop Culture

But by the final season, the show found its way back to its original DNA as (spoilers ahead) the gang worked together to take down the biggest bad of all and save themselves from a life in jail in the process. As the series came to a close, we knew not everyone would make it out alive—that David Rosen scene was rough—and that Fitz and Olivia were the romantic endgame all along. But given the twists and turns that Scandal has always been famous for, it was incredibly unclear where Rhimes would eventually leave us.

Turns out, it was a pretty satisfying place. While it took place in D.C., Scandalwas never really a show about politics like, say, The West Wing. But when the series did hit on issues, it was often in the service of some wish fulfillment. That was all too clear in the series finale as the first female President Mellie Grant, a Republican, signs gun control legislation. Or when the press helps take down a corrupt faction of the U.S. government.

Read the full story on Glamour.com 

 

April 20, 2018 /Abby Gardner
Glamour, Scandal, Kerry Washington
Pop Culture
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I Can't Stop Staring at Christina Aguilera's Freckles →

March 27, 2018 by Abby Gardner in Pop Culture, Beauty

When the latest cover of Paper magazine was released yesterday afternoon, I—like many others—had to do a double take when I saw the name Christina Aguilera printed across a close-up shot of a freckly, bare-faced blond. My internal monologue rambled through the stages of recognition: "Wait, who? No, it couldn't be. Christina has freckles?!? She looks so pretty. I never thought I'd see the day."

The public image of Christina Aguilera—the one she's mostly stuck to since she burst onto the music scene in 1999 with "Genie in a Bottle"—has been one in which makeup plays a big part. She has definitely been a "go big or go home" girl when it comes to beauty, long a fan of dramatic eyelashes, contouring, and a bold red lip. And that camp vibe is part of what makes Christina, Christina. The Papercover and coinciding photos inside, however, indicate that perhaps a different Aguilera era is upon us, and that new music is likely on the way. This isn't the first time we've seen a pop star take this route prior to a musical shift. See: Taylor Swift's brow-heavy Wonderland cover where she ditched her famed winged eyeliner and red lipstick.

Read the full story on Glamour.com 

 

March 27, 2018 /Abby Gardner
Glamour, Christina Aguilera
Pop Culture, Beauty
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Why 'ER' Is a Hit Again—Almost 25 Years After Its Original Premiere →

March 20, 2018 by Abby Gardner in Pop Culture

 

It makes sense. Like a huge chunk of the country, ER was appointment television for me. During my freshman year in college, my friends and I viewed NBC's Must-See TV as our pre-party time; we'd head out as soon as we emotionally recovered from the drama of that night's episode. And back when the show's reruns ran on TBS during the late nineties and early aughts, I'd often find myself sucked back in. But even that was a very long time ago. So, what exactly is it about an almost 25-year-old drama that makes it so appealing to brand-new viewers in 2018?

After revisiting a number of episodes from season one, there are a few things that stand out immediately. First, I was struck by the diversity of characters. As you can imagine, creating a big city emergency room involves a lot of people, which includes numerous guest stars and background roles. It's a pleasant revelation that there's representation across the board, in both ethnicity and gender. While initially the main cast is predominantly white—Wyle, Clooney, Margulies, Anthony Edwards, Sherry Stringfield—it's clear that Eriq LaSalle's Dr. Peter Benton is anything but a token character. There are women and people of color—including women of color—in almost every scene. Frankly, you'd be hard-pressed to find that level of diversity in a lot of shows on air right now in 2018. When Frances McDormand spoke at the Oscars about "inclusion riders", this is the kind of set one could imagine seeing as a result. ER was just doing it back in 1994.

Read the full story on Glamour.com

 

March 20, 2018 /Abby Gardner
Glamour, ER
Pop Culture
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How Should We Watch the Olympics in a Post-Nassar World? →

February 09, 2018 by Abby Gardner in News + Politics

For die-hard sports fans like me, the Olympics is the pinnacle of broadcast sporting events: Two weeks of watching the best athletes in the world compete against one another for what represents the ultimate athletic achievement—an Olympic gold medal. I live for the personal tales of struggle and sacrifice, carefully packaged together by NBC to tug at our heartstrings, and unabashedly tear up every time the Star-Spangled Banner plays as a champion takes the podium. And that sentiment is in no way mine alone.

The Olympics represent a (increasingly rare) moment where we can feel united as a nation, screaming our hearts out from the couch about sports we might not even have followed before. (Curling, anyone?) The experience of the Games is one of collective pride—and sometimes shared heartbreak. Even if you've never played a sport in your life, you can imagine how you would feel in that moment, wearing that medal. We feel that the athletes are ours. For the length of the Olympiad, they are part of our family."

But this year's Winter Olympics come with some emotional baggage, even for the most casual sports fan. We're now living in a post–Larry Nassar world—one where we've been exposed to the dark underbelly of one particular athletic system that is now undergoing a massive reckoning. Nassar, a former USA Gymnastics doctor has now been convicted on multiple counts of criminal sexual misconduct, and will spend the rest of his life in jail. As part of his sentencing process, America bore witness to hundreds of survivors who came forward to share their stories. I personally spent hours upon hours watching their testimonies and weeping as research for our Glamour story. I know that I am forever changed. Aren’t we all? And how can America not be forced to reckon with that experience in the context of a new procession of Olympic hopefuls?

Read the full story on Glamour.com 

 

February 09, 2018 /Abby Gardner
Glamour, Olympics, Larry Nassar
News + Politics
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I Never Thought ‘Vanderpump Rules’ Would Deliver a Feminist Hero, But Here We Are →

January 22, 2018 by Abby Gardner in Pop Culture

"Vanderpump Rules isn't typically a show one looks to for role models of any kind. The cast members drink heavily, cheat on each other often, fight like it's their job (which, I guess it literally is), and sometimes steal shades from a Sunglass Hut in Hawaii. Oh, and they occasionally work at S.U.R, Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star Lisa Vanderpump's West Hollywood lounge and restaurant. Watching Vanderpump Rules brings the same kind of joy people find in delicious soap operas, like Dallas or The Young and the Restless—which, ironically, one of the former cast members has starred in. (Remember Vail?)

So imagine my surprise this season when I found myself rooting for cast member Lala Kent. At first Lala wasn't somebody I'd consider a feminist role model for our times. She's a more recent addition to the cast—joining the show in season four as a recurring character—and initially she seemed to be filling the tried-and-true reality show (and soap opera) archetype of the pretty newcomer who arrives to stir up trouble. She wasn't afraid to flirt with whoever she wanted and she didn't back down from the show's own Mean Girls–like clique of Stassi, Katie, and Kristen. Though to be fair to them, Lala didn't endear herself when she chastised them for not "working on their summer bodies." Lala even walked away from the show for a chunk of last season after rumors (that continue, even now) that she's seeing a married man were brought up. (Recent reports claim he's now officially divorced and once previously filed for legal separation in 2015.)

Read the full story on Glamour.com

January 22, 2018 /Abby Gardner
Glamour, Vanderpump Rules, Lala Kent, Bravo
Pop Culture
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Meredith and Cristina Will Always Be the Best Couple on 'Grey's Anatomy' →

November 09, 2017 by Abby Gardner in Pop Culture

We loyal fans have truly seen it all, especially when it comes to relationships. Der and Mer. Burke and Cristina. Meredith and the vet. Derek and Addie. Denny and Izzie. Alex and Izzie. Izzie and George. (I'm still annoyed about that one.) Callie and George. Arizona and Callie. McSteamy and Lexie. Jackson and April. April and that paramedic she left at the altar. Bailey and Ben. Alex and Jo...seriously, the limit does not exist when it comes to couples on this show.

But there is one pairing that reigns supreme: Meredith Grey and Cristina Yang.

Derek "McDreamy" Shepard may have been Meredith's great love, but her "person" will always be Cristina—and vice versa. And that's not just because (spoiler!) Derek's dead. Like many great relationships that have come before, these two (played by Ellen Pompeo and Sandra Oh) got serious over cocktails. I can't even imagine calling someone your "person" not being a part of the vernacular, and it's all thanks to Yang and Grey.

Read the full story on Glamour.com

 

November 09, 2017 /Abby Gardner
Glamour, Grey's Anatomy, Meredith Grey, Cristina Yang, Sandra Oh, Ellen Pompeo
Pop Culture
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The 2017 Election Results Reminded Me What Hope Feels Like →

November 08, 2017 by Abby Gardner in News + Politics

Across the country yesterday, millions of Americans voted in local elections. Some, such as the gubernatorial race in Virginia, had garnered major national coverage. But most had not. I felt a little left out of the mix as there were none here in my hometown of Indianapolis, where I had recently relocated to from New York City.

I have loved voting in every election since I turned 18 and have tried to be a pretty involved citizen most of the time. At the very least, I make sure I'm well-informed on the issues. I canvassed for Barack Obama in 2008 and 2012. And 2016 basically broke me, like so many others.

I was not some reluctant supporter of Hillary Clinton as a reaction to the horrors of Donald Trump. I truly loved and believed in my candidate. I used my social platforms to push out her message and spent countless hours calling voters in swing states. When she lost, a wave of grief rocked me in a way I hadn't experienced since the sudden loss of my mom in 2014.

Over the course of this year, I've cried a lot and raged even more. I'm usually an avid reader, but I can barely get through a book. Even my move back to the Midwest was not unrelated. I wanted to be on the ground to help support candidates and organizations, like Planned Parenthood, that reflect my values…in a state (though not city, thanks Indy!) that is almost always red.

So it was with great trepidation that I tuned in to the election results last night, as I'm pretty sure 2016 left many of us with some kind of electoral PTSD. No, we weren't electing a president and these were not the all-important 2018 midterms. But these races might give us a clue about what we're facing when they arrive.

Read the full story on Glamour.com 

 

November 08, 2017 /Abby Gardner
Elections, Glamour, Hillary Clinton
News + Politics

 

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